Affirming Legal Representation
At Leffler, Bayoumi & Oliver, LLC, we are proud to serve Maryland's LGBTQIA+ community. We understand that LGBTQIA+ families face unique legal considerations and may have concerns about finding attorneys who will treat them with respect and understanding.
Our attorneys have experience with the specific legal issues affecting same-gender couples and LGBTQIA+ individuals, and we provide knowledgeable, affirming representation.
Marriage and Divorce
Maryland fully recognizes same-sex marriages and affords same-sex couples the same legal rights and responsibilities as any other married couple in matters of marriage, divorce, property division, custody, and support. While the legal framework is the same, certain logistical or documentation issues can still arise, particularly when a marriage was performed in another state or country, or when prior civil unions or domestic partnerships are involved. Our attorneys help ensure your relationship is properly recognized and your rights are fully protected at every stage.
Parenting and Custody
LGBTQIA+ parents face particular considerations in custody matters:
Establishing Legal Parentage
Securing legal parentage is essential to protecting both parents' rights and a child's stability. While a birth parent typically has automatic legal recognition, a non-birth parent may need an adoption or court order to establish those same rights. Clear donor agreements and thoughtful legal planning around surrogacy are also critical to ensure parental intentions are properly documented and enforceable.
Second-Parent Adoption
When only one partner is a legal parent, second-parent adoption allows the other parent to obtain full and equal parental rights. This provides lasting protection for the family, safeguards decision-making authority, and ensures legal recognition in everyday situations such as medical care, school matters, and travel. We strongly recommend this step even for married couples to avoid uncertainty in the future.
Custody Disputes
In custody matters, we advocate firmly for the recognition and protection of each parent's role in a child's life. This may include advancing de facto or psychological parent arguments and ensuring that all decisions are guided by the child's best interests, free from bias or discrimination.
Adoption
Maryland fully supports LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples in building their families through adoption. Same-sex couples may adopt jointly, individuals may adopt as single parents, and second-parent and foster care adoptions are widely available. We guide families through each step with experience, sensitivity, and trusted counsel.
Assisted Reproduction
Many LGBTQ+ families are created through assisted reproduction:
Donor Insemination
Families pursuing donor insemination, whether through a known or anonymous donor, benefit from clear legal planning at the outset. We help secure legal recognition for non-biological parents, so your family structure is protected from day one.
Surrogacy
While we do not handle the surrogacy arrangement itself, we advise intended parents on the estate planning considerations that accompany this process. This includes updating wills, trusts, guardianship nominations, and beneficiary designations to ensure your child is fully protected and your wishes are clearly documented as your family grows. We regularly coordinate with reproductive counsel and other professionals to provide seamless, comprehensive support.
Embryo Adoption
Embryo adoption involves both emotional and legal complexities, making thorough documentation essential. We prepare detailed agreements between donors and recipients, manage consent and relinquishment requirements, coordinate with fertility clinics, and guide families through parentage and birth certificate determinations in compliance with applicable state and federal laws.
Transgender Name and Gender-Affirming Services
Transgender individuals face specific legal considerations when it comes to name change and gender marker changes. We assist clients with the legal steps necessary to ensure their identity documents accurately reflect who they are. This includes obtaining court orders for name changes, correcting gender markers on government identification, amending birth certificates, and updating related records such as marriage or divorce documents, so everything is consistent and legally recognized.
Protecting Your Family
Proactive planning provides LGBTQIA+ families with clarity and peace of mind. Through adoption and parentage planning, comprehensive estate planning, healthcare directives, beneficiary designations, and other protective documents, we help ensure your partner and children are legally protected and your intentions are honored in every circumstance, from daily decision-making to long-term security.
Discrimination Concerns
Although Maryland provides strong legal protections for LGBTQIA+ individuals and families, bias can still surface in emotionally charged family law matters. We remain vigilant in advocating for our clients, challenging discriminatory treatment, and ensuring courts apply the law fairly and without prejudice. When additional support is helpful, we also connect families with trusted community and professional resources.
Our LGBTQIA+ Advocacy and Family Planning Services
At Leffler, Bayoumi & Oliver, LLC, we offer comprehensive, inclusive representation tailored to the unique needs of LGBTQIA+ individuals and families. Our services include divorce and separation matters, custody and visitation, adoption and parentage planning, assisted reproduction and related agreements, name and gender marker changes, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, and thoughtful estate planning designed to protect your partner, your children, and your future. We are here to provide steady guidance and trusted counsel at every stage.




